Labeling others shows the arrogance of insecurity.
Those in authority often bestow nicknames on others to stoke their own self-esteem -- or lack of it.
When nicknames are given in affection and accepted in friendship, they can be a potent social bonding tool. But when a nickname works only one way, as when an authority figure labels others who are in no position to reject or dispute the label, especially when that nickname carries negative undertones, it can be resented by the target and demeaning to both the labeler and the target.
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